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Anonymous asked: You rock. You handled that shitty situation in a pretty professional manner, and your ability to stand your ground in the face of such a crappy albeit painfully common circumstance is remarkable, admirable and more. Keep at it, cutie. You're the bomb, and you weren't in the wrong in dealing with that man in the manner you did by any means. You're helping him learn to respect other people before his own desires in putting him down. You've done good. <3
Thank you so much ^-^ I’m never quite sure what to do in those situations, so it’s glad to hear the vote of confidence <3 you’ve made me feel better about this situation, anon!
celadonlonghorn asked: I'm really sorry that that happened to you, I run a pony ask blog and I'm sorry to say that a ton of the fandom is unapologetically like that. I don't mean to be a downer or anything because I love being in the fandom anyways, and I have a ton of friends there! Please just be careful is all I'm saying. ;w;
Thanks for the heads up. I’ve noticed that a fair amount of bronies have “nice guy” tendencies. I know there are downsides to every fandom and I’m glad you enjoy being in it! It’s not quite the fandom for me as I’m more into gaming and Pokemon, but I have met some cool people through mutual enjoyment of the show ^-^
inspector-starfish asked: I'm sorry about the trouble you had with the guy and I'm sorry if this seems creepy as well but I was wondering if you are going to animazment and if you were going to have a booth? (Or Aniwave which I know isn't until December typically)
I’d love to have a booth at Aniwave! It’s one of my favorite cons because it’s small and feels more friendly than some of the bigger ones. I missed the application for Animazement because I didn’t know if I’d have the time to go this year, but I do plan on going and cosplaying on Saturday (or Friday, depending on what I can get off at work)! I’ll post more info once I know when I can. I’d love to meet some tumblr bros there!
alaskapanda asked: Hey sweetie, I hope you're feeling better from the other day. Keep in mind you're a gorgeous person, inside and out! If you ever need to talk to someone about ANYTHING, despite just meeting each other, I am absolutely here for you should you need someone to listen <3 <3 Keep your head up darling!!!
Thank you so much sweetie <3 I’m usually happy, just a few things got me down lately, but I’m bouncing back. Followers like you make the world more awesome ^^
I’ve been dealing with this dude. This “nice guy” and it has been exhausting. I joined this brony page on facebook of local bronies. I think the show is cute and I wanted to take some pony commissions and doing it locally for practice seemed like a good idea. Nothing too stressful. Plus it would be nice to maybe make some friends.
The amount of times I’ve been asked out so far on there is frustrating. Nothing too bad, but it’s become tiresome over the months to deal with. Then this one guy says he liked the few things I’ve said on that page. So I humor him, chat to him, maybe he’ll commission me or be a friend.
After some time (of barely chatting at all, which is my fault because I rarely reply to facebook messages), he says he’d like to meet me. I said sure, like at a meet or something, I’ve been working some 12 hour shifts and so I hibernated. I wake to find that he drove three hours and is in the city I live. He said he’s on his way to business and deteored through my city because wants to meet me. I freaked out. Nonononono. Then I feel guilty because of wasted gas and everything. If my roommate hadn’t slapped sense into me, I would have gone because of the guilt I felt and because as a business major, wasted money makes me really uncomfortable.
Then he starts sending me selfies, he’s in a suit, saying it’s a date. So I finally tell him no because of that. And he makes a passive aggressive being stood up status’ on which I school him about his dumb-assery. Today he talked to me on messenger again. Asked me if I was going to animazement. I said why. He wants me to go with him and cosplay as fluttershy.
I’ve stopped talking to him. Now it makes sense why the previous woman he talked to blocked him and deleted him. He said she was being mean, but it was just typical nice guy behavior skeeving out another woman.
I’m not going to say all bronies are like this or anything. My bad experience isn’t going to make me hate them or anything. This was an isolated incident that has soured my experience. And further makes me not want to be in a relationship with anyone.
tenefix asked: Since you've been a bit down, I want you to know again that you're awesome. <3 Also want to share something that made me think a lot: loneliness isn't always bad. think about the feelings you have and try to see them in a positive light. try to appreciate them and the contrast they make in your life. Being lonely may feel bad, but sometimes the longing can feel comforting and nostalgic in a weird way? idk Ideally, just mess up your perception and think really hard. Maybe coll things will happen?
Thank you so muchYou’re right. It helps to look from another perspective. And it’s what I’ve been trying to do. I had a slight set back this past week, but I’m ready to start living me! Even if I’m currently in the asexual/aromantic spectrum of things, That’s not a bad thing. And currently I need focus on projects and not any sort of relationship stuff. You guys are freaking awesome!